CHAPTER 3

Shared Experience Mastery

Who’s in Their Shoes?

We discussed in the last chapter how important it is to engage in feedback that utilizes shared experiences. This creates a trust and a bond that “cements” the ability to accept feedback and change behavior. Obviously, this will differ depending on your advisory client, and places a high premium on your being able to involve yourself in diverse experiences and circumstances.

It has always amused me that a dozen people from the same local chapter attending a national convention will opt to have dinner with each other—which they can do year-round—rather than meet new people and dine with them! There is also this comic observation about “the other guy’s shoes”:

To walk in someone’s shoes, ...

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