9The Need for Intimacy

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People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care.

—UNKNOWN

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Intimacy makes people feel connected. It's the basic human need to belong.

Back in your childhood, you may have belonged to a club that had a secret handshake. Just knowing that handshake made you feel that you were a part of the group. That handshake was the "intimacy" factor that made you feel connected. There was something special that only members could do or know.

In your work life, a need for intimacy means feeling a part of a team and being connected to those around us. When ...

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