TIP 41

MAKE AMENDS

       If you haven’t forgiven yourself something, how can you forgive others?

DOLORES HUERTA

The best way to start attracting great people into your life is to clean up the relationships you already have. This should sound familiar. “Maintain what you have before you expand” is a key principle in coaching. Let’s start with the most intimate and important relationship of all—the one with yourself. What are your less than desirable traits? Perhaps you are too critical and judgmental of others? There is nothing, absolutely nothing, attractive about judging others. Quite the contrary. Nobody likes being judged, so if you want to be successful, this may be an area to work on.

Naturally, I wanted to eliminate this negative personality ...

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